{"id":15186,"date":"2020-10-22T09:30:51","date_gmt":"2020-10-22T09:30:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.beejameditation.com\/blog\/2020\/10\/22\/the-myths-and-misconceptions-around-wellbeing\/"},"modified":"2023-02-16T09:21:33","modified_gmt":"2023-02-16T09:21:33","slug":"the-myths-and-misconceptions-around-wellbeing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beejameditation.com\/blog\/the-myths-and-misconceptions-around-wellbeing\/","title":{"rendered":"The Myths and Misconceptions around Wellbeing"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"15186\" class=\"elementor elementor-15186\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-37777235 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"37777235\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4914aae9\" data-id=\"4914aae9\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-56bb8f54 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"56bb8f54\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.13.3 - 28-05-2023 *\/\n.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-stacked .elementor-drop-cap{background-color:#69727d;color:#fff}.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-framed .elementor-drop-cap{color:#69727d;border:3px solid;background-color:transparent}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap{margin-top:8px}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap-letter{width:1em;height:1em}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap{float:left;text-align:center;line-height:1;font-size:50px}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap-letter{display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t<p>For many people, the words \u201cwellbeing\u201d or \u201cwellness\u201d can elicit an inner groan &#8211; and we can see why this might be so! Wellness in our Instagram-filtered world can be thought of as something wishy-washy, indulgent and even self-centered, or the domain of a privileged few who have endless time and money on their hands.\u00a0In this atmosphere, a variety of wellbeing myths have emerged.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>It\\&#8217;s these wellbeing myths which frame the pursuit of wellness as an exercise in lighting expensive scented candles, taking luxurious baths and enjoy long leisurely spa days &#8211; essentially a series of treats which can feel somewhat unattainable to those managing a tight budget and even tighter schedule.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-20c18a0 elementor-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"20c18a0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/www.beejameditation.com\/find-a-course\" class=\"elementor-button-link elementor-button elementor-size-sm\" role=\"button\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-icon elementor-align-icon-left\">\n\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fab fa-discourse\"><\/i>\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">Find an upcoming course<\/span>\n\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c042d6f elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c042d6f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<!-- wp:paragraph --><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>However, as much as it may be understandable that this perception has arisen in our age of social media aesthetics and quick-fix healing, we think that at the heart of wellness is something truly important, which it\u2019s vital people don\u2019t miss out on.\u00a0<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Throughout our lives, we absorb messages which at best don\u2019t serve us, and at worst can be truly toxic. Men are told that to even acknowledge their emotional world (and, by extension, truly understand themselves as a full being) is a form of weakness.\u00a0To express <a href=\"\\&quot;https:\/\/www.beejameditation.com\/benefits-of-meditation\/anxiety\/\\&quot;\">anxiety<\/a> or vulnerability has for a long time been seen as unacceptable for men, and this is an issue that we still need to do a lot of work on as a society.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Women, on the other hand, are told to prioritise the needs of others, and that they are unreliable witnesses to their own feelings and experiences &#8211; which is a key reason why research suggests <a href=\"\\&quot;https:\/\/www.bbc.com\/future\/article\/20180518-the-inequality-in-how-women-are-treated-for-pain\\&quot;\">women\u2019s reports of pain<\/a> and distress are taken less seriously by medical institutions. We can all internalise the message that hard work = moral worth, and that success must be quantified by numbers in a bank account.\u00a0Also, it\\&#8217;s important to remember that everyone lives with reverberations of their childhood, and that even the happiest youthful experiences include formative moments of sadness.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>In this setting, the concepts of wellness and wellbeing can be a vital pushback &#8211; and most especially for groups who face oppression and discrimination. In the words of Audre Lorde, \u201cCaring for myself is not self indulgent, it is self preservation, and that is an act of political warfare\u201d.\u00a0<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Self care &#8211; whatever that looks like to you &#8211; and looking after your wellbeing is by no means a selfish or indulgent act, it is a key part of navigating the world around you in a way which protects your physical and emotional health. Wellbeing is unique to every person, and it\u2019s often a long journey of unlearning bad messages and embracing new ones.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Meditation in particular is time we can dedicated to ourselves which is powerful way to overcome negative patterns which we unconsciously repeat throughout our lives, to our own detriment and sometimes to the detriment of the people around us. 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