{"id":15300,"date":"2022-10-06T09:00:48","date_gmt":"2022-10-06T09:00:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.beejameditation.com\/blog\/2022\/10\/06\/coulda-woulda-shoulda\/"},"modified":"2023-02-15T14:05:13","modified_gmt":"2023-02-15T14:05:13","slug":"coulda-woulda-shoulda","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beejameditation.com\/blog\/coulda-woulda-shoulda\/","title":{"rendered":"Coulda, Woulda, Shoulda"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"15300\" class=\"elementor elementor-15300\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-5b8ac4a6 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"5b8ac4a6\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-6ff7fc1b\" data-id=\"6ff7fc1b\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2d570fa6 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2d570fa6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.13.3 - 28-05-2023 *\/\n.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-stacked .elementor-drop-cap{background-color:#69727d;color:#fff}.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-framed .elementor-drop-cap{color:#69727d;border:3px solid;background-color:transparent}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap{margin-top:8px}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap-letter{width:1em;height:1em}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap{float:left;text-align:center;line-height:1;font-size:50px}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap-letter{display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t<p>Wassup peeps!<br \/><br \/>As ever I\u2019m hoping you guys are in super fine fettle. It\\&#8217;s funny when you do a job like this, you care so much about how people are doing. It\u2019s like everyday you wake up rooting for everyone, sending everyone vibes like a star radiates photons, hoping and trusting that some of them land and make a difference, and ultimately hoping that the good vibes aren\u2019t really necessary because all you stars are shining so brightly anyway! It\u2019s also funny how you remember all the different people and wonder how they\u2019re getting on\u2026it\u2019s one of the reasons why I love being connected via WhatsApp, it just means that instant connection is possible when needed.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-12a9c65 elementor-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"12a9c65\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/www.beejameditation.com\/find-a-course\" class=\"elementor-button-link elementor-button elementor-size-sm\" role=\"button\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-icon elementor-align-icon-left\">\n\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fab fa-discourse\"><\/i>\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">Find an upcoming course<\/span>\n\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-fa7751c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"fa7751c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Anyway, for this week\u2019s post, I wanted to discuss the phenomena of coulda, woulda, shoulda. I\u2019m sure it\\&#8217;s something we\u2019ve all caught ourselves doing from time to time, and you may well be very aware of it when others are engaging in it. However, I feel it\u2019s worth unpacking a little bit as there are further insights that can help us become fully resolved with the actuality of what happened, as opposed to the dreamscape of what \u2018might\u2019 have been.<br \/><br \/>The first thing to perhaps ask ourselves, is \u2018did we try to make the best decision given all of the information that was available to us\u2019? If we did, what\u2019s the sweat? That we didn\u2019t have full information? Who ever does? If that\u2019s your pre-requisite for making a decision, you\u2019re going to be stuck in analysis paralysis your whole life, and life is either going to pass you by, or squash you.<br \/><br \/>However, that\u2019s all well and good to say, but it doesn\u2019t necessarily change the way we feel about it. Chances are, it\u2019s because you\u2019re clinging onto something unrelated. Maybe you\u2019re clinging onto the idea that you should be perfect. If so, why is that? It\u2019s impossible to be perfect. Jesus, Buddha, Moses, Mohammed, Gandhi, Mandela, Luther-King weren\u2019t perfect, why the bloody hell should you be? It\u2019s an insane standard to hold yourself accountable to (or indeed other people). Maybe your self esteem is such that any excuse will suffice to fund that self destructive viewpoint, and you are clinging too hard to doing brilliant things, rather than simply being as brilliant as you can be, in all of your gloriously flawed humanity?<br \/><br \/>Or maybe this situation is triggering other unresolved events of the past which mean that it\u2019s not actually this situation that is really affecting you, it\\&#8217;s the stirred up memory of the past situation(s) that is unsettling you. In which case, there\u2019s just no point feeding this latter situation with energy. Better to channel the emotion into fueling the desire, energy, and intent to healing and resolving those past situations. To learning from them. And sometimes, the biggest lesson is to surrender to the machinations of the past, to allow you to feel liberated in the present. If you don\u2019t know how to do that, then come and find out about the other things we offer, because we can most certainly help you with that, and indeed the self esteem issues and self destructive tendencies mentioned above.<br \/><br \/>Now what if we didn\u2019t make the decision based on all the information we had at the time? That\u2019s a very different kettle of fish, and something worth delving deeper into. Because then it\u2019s a case of, \u2018you knew what to do, but you didn\u2019t do it anyway\u2019. The first thing to realise is that we ALL do it! It\u2019s part of being human. It may of course still be a result of self esteem issues as per the above. It may be that past events were clouding your judgement in the moment, because you haven\u2019t processed them, and you\u2019re letting them skew your judgement. For whilst history is a great teacher, no two situations are ever the same. And even if they were, you are at a different stage of evolution\/life which means that all options should always be on the table. If a non-clouded view of the situation suggests a particular course of action, then that\u2019s the pathway, otherwise we are making a non-rational, non-intuitive decision, and there\u2019s rarely justification for ignoring both the rational mind, and the intuitive heart.<br \/><br \/>Was your suboptimal decision actually grounded in fear? I don\u2019t know how many decisions, big and small, get made each day by people all over the world because of fear, but it must be tens of billions. It\u2019s really not helpful. In fact, I would say its a bona fide individual and collective disaster. A life, and a world, governed by fear based decision making is a rotten one. Full stop. The end. If you\u2019re faced by actual confirmed danger, then great. That\u2019s what fear is there for. But how many times in your life does that actually happen? Unless you live in a warzone, it\u2019s very, very seldom. You are locking yourself in a prison of your own making and it\u2019s going to ruin your life, day in, day out. And the worst thing is, it feeds on itself. The more you habituate fear based decision making, the more you default to it. So rather than regret it, why not find ways to make sure you make more positive choices in the future? Is there someone you can buddy up with to be more accountable to?<br \/><br \/>Perhaps related to this, was there a need to prove yourself wrapped up in the decision making process? If there was, again, that\u2019s likely to end up proving just as ugly and distorting as making fear based decisions. The only thing that\u2019s sustainable and truly adorable is you being your most authentic self, not your try hard, everyone-look-at-me-and see-how-worthy-I-am-as-a human-being self. Even if you\u2019d have succeeded in that particular endeavour, it would have just taken you further away from your true self, and your true heart\u2019s desires. It may have impressed others, but it would have left you feeling empty and hollow at the soul level, even if it left you feeling puffed up at the ego level.<br \/><br \/>Or perhaps it was unresolved wounds that caused you to cycle once more through an old and painfully familiar pattern of behaviour? If that\u2019s the case, it should already be clear to you that you need to get to the root of why that is still infecting your life, rather than letting it spoil the fruits of your present reality.<br \/><br \/>Maybe there was a dichotomy between head and heart? Maybe your heart really wanted to zig left, when your head wanted to zag right. I\u2019m going to assume that it was your head that was wrong, because your true heart\u2019s signals (rather than your emotive, passionate signals that have their origin elsewhere) are never wrong. And you never regret following them.<br \/><br \/>Whatever the reason, there is one simple conclusion; you made the decision you did because of your relative state of development at the time you made it.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>The more developed you are, the fewer mistakes you make. So actually, the biggest mistake we ever make is not committing to developing ourselves. The second biggest mistake we make is saying \u2018when this happens, then I\u2019ll develop\u2019. That is not likely to have a happy ending!<br \/><br \/>Now there is another possibility. What if you simply took a risk and it didn\u2019t pan out? In which case, there\u2019s no coulda, woulda, shoulda, because you knowingly took the risk, you accepted the odds, it didn\u2019t work, and you find yourself simply dusting yourself down with minimal wistfulness and regret, and nothing but gratitude for what you learned.<br \/><br \/>Come what may, if you want to learn how to heal your wounds, and critically, understand how to transcend the unreliability of fear, conditioning, the agonies of low self esteem and the distortion of old woundings and instead embrace the reliability of deep intuitive truth signals from your heart and your soul, then we suggest you take a deep dive journey of some description. We\u2019ve got one called Limitless Living which is an absolute revelation in every way you could possibly conceive, and perhaps other schools have something as well.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>But please know, you ain\u2019t going to learn it from a book, or a podcast. This requires immersion. It requires transformation. And it requires an expert guide. I would of course be honoured and delighted to play that role for you, as I\u2019m sure many others would too. Whoever you decide, I encourage you, nay urge you, to make a positive decision for the sake of the rest of your (potentially) glorious life, and for the sake of all the people you care most deeply about.<br \/><br \/>The choice is yours.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>With love and zero remorse\u00a0<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><br \/>Will &amp; The Team xxxx<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-f1665e2\" data-id=\"f1665e2\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-27bd638 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"27bd638\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-21ba21e\" data-id=\"21ba21e\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1ce14e3 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"1ce14e3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! 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As ever I\u2019m hoping you guys are in super fine fettle. It&#8217;s funny when you do a job like this, you care so much about how people are doing. It\u2019s like everyday you wake up rooting for everyone, sending everyone vibes like a star radiates photons, hoping and trusting that some of them [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":15504,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"inline_featured_image":false,"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"default","ast-site-content-layout":"","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15300","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beejameditation.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15300","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beejameditation.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beejameditation.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beejameditation.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beejameditation.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15300"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.beejameditation.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15300\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":15508,"href":"https:\/\/www.beejameditation.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15300\/revisions\/15508"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beejameditation.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15504"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beejameditation.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15300"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beejameditation.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15300"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beejameditation.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15300"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}